Don't let people get to you
Life is too short to waste it on people. In life, all of us have to face problems. That's inevitable. All the sorrow and trouble of this world is caused by unhappy people. Not only in the big global picture but also on the smallest personal level.
Life is the most difficult exam. All of us face problems but they don't really matter. What matters is that how we face them. We stumble in our lives, then only we get to know our weaknesses and strengths. Once we get to know our weaknesses and turn them into our strength, nobody can ever defeat us. People do lie and cheat and some even say they love us when they don't. But we can't let their negativity destroy our positivity. We can't let them be the reason to stop living. But there are people who love us, we should find and keep them in our life forever.
People try to put us down so that means we are above them. Whatever happens don't let them take away your self-esteem, which often happens and we fall into depression. At this , we should get hold of ourselves and find our base. When people criticize us, don't take it personally. It's not about us, their actions reflect them and their character. We can't control others , but we can control ourselves.
Life is the most difficult exam. All of us face problems but they don't really matter. What matters is that how we face them. We stumble in our lives, then only we get to know our weaknesses and strengths. Once we get to know our weaknesses and turn them into our strength, nobody can ever defeat us. People do lie and cheat and some even say they love us when they don't. But we can't let their negativity destroy our positivity. We can't let them be the reason to stop living. But there are people who love us, we should find and keep them in our life forever.
People try to put us down so that means we are above them. Whatever happens don't let them take away your self-esteem, which often happens and we fall into depression. At this , we should get hold of ourselves and find our base. When people criticize us, don't take it personally. It's not about us, their actions reflect them and their character. We can't control others , but we can control ourselves.
The best help you can get at this time is from your patience. People try to test our patience, so prove them wrong. But careful with how much you tolerate , you are teaching people how to treat you.
It gives joy to certain people to see you in misery. Do you want them to take pleasure while your life gets ruined ? You getting frustrated is what they want. Are you going to let them win? Everyone has their own way of dealing with people.
Always remember people can hurt you only if you allow them to. Although this is easier to say than it is to implement, but not impossible. Once you don't allow people to hurt you, you will be impenetrable.
So who do you want to be at the end of the day : the person who broke and let people win and gave them what they wanted or the person who stood firmly.
The choice is all yours
Always remember people can hurt you only if you allow them to. Although this is easier to say than it is to implement, but not impossible. Once you don't allow people to hurt you, you will be impenetrable.
So who do you want to be at the end of the day : the person who broke and let people win and gave them what they wanted or the person who stood firmly.
The choice is all yours
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